Disclosure: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only recommend products that align with my journey toward self-love and confidence. The Battle With Anxiety Anxiety has been my lifelong shadow, creeping in whenever eyes land on me. From shaky hands to racing thoughts, I’ve struggled with being the center of attention for as long as I can remember. It even impacted my longest relationship because I couldn’t express myself without feeling awkward. And still, every day, I fight this battle—with pep talks, affirmations, and deep breaths. Today was no different. A…
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Finding Peace in a Chaotic World
The Power of Minding Your Own Business: Finding Peace in a Chaotic World Introduction: Protecting Your Peace Is a Superpower Minding my own business has been the biggest blessing and lesson of my life. It’s not just about staying out of drama—it’s about protecting my energy, limiting judgment, and focusing on what truly matters: my peace. The world is full of chaos, opinions, and noise, but I choose to tune into what serves me. Some may call it avoidance. Others may call it ignorance. I call it self-mastery. When you focus on your own life instead of getting swept up in the world’s madness, you gain an unshakable sense of…
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Manifestation in Action: How I Attracted My Winning Peacock
You Are the Creator of Your Reality Let’s talk about manifesting. I recently took a vacation to New Orleans—a manifestation in itself, but we’ll touch on that another time. While there, someone recommended that I hit the casino. Now, I’m not a big gambler. I set a $20 max loss limit before I walk out. But this time, I decided to have a little fun with my manifestation skills. Setting the Intention As soon as I walked in, I set my intention: My winning machine will have a peacock on it. Now, I had never seen a peacock on a slot machine before, but that didn’t matter. I create my…
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A Sapiosexual’s Guide to Dating: Why My Conversations with Myself Set the Bar
We’ll Get Along Great If Our Conversations Are Better Than the Ones I Have with Myself Let’s be real, if I’m dating you, you have some serious competition. And no, I’m not talking about other people. I’m talking about me. The conversations I have with myself are top-tier. My thoughts flow freely, my humor is always on point, and the self-awareness? Impeccable. So if we’re not vibing on that level (or better), what are we even doing? For my fellow sapiosexuals, those of us who are wildly attracted to intelligence— the struggle of modern dating is real. Swiping through profiles that lack substance is like scrolling through a bad…
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5 Life-Changing Lessons I Learned After Leaving Religion
Finding Freedom, Joy, and Confidence Through My Internal Guidance System Breaking away from religion was one of the most transformative decisions of my life. It didn’t mean I lost faith; instead, I gained clarity, independence, and a deeper connection to my internal guidance system (IGS)—my human GPS. These lessons have set me free, and I want to share them with you to encourage, inspire, and help you explore newfound ways to live freely. 1. I Create My Own Experiences Life isn’t happening to me; it’s happening through me. Stepping out of religious confines made me realize I hold the brush to my canvas. I began to set intentions, trust my…
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Protecting Your Peace: Choosing Yourself, Even When It’s Hard
Lesson Learned: “I Care About You, But I Care More About Me” When it comes to love, it’s natural to want to prioritize the people we care about. We’re taught to compromise, to understand, to give. But what happens when that giving runs the risk of draining us? Tonight, I learned a powerful lesson: protecting my peace is not just a choice; it’s a necessity—even if it means making difficult decisions about those I love. The Clash of Energies Picture this: My partner and I had been sending heavy “Cant wait to see you” messages all day, filled with excitement about spending time together. The anticipation was mutual, and I…
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7 Self-Empowerment Must-Have Gifts for the Holidays
The holiday season is upon us, and what better way to spread joy than by giving the gift of empowerment? This Christmas, let’s focus on thoughtful gifts that inspire growth, self-love, and confidence. Whether you’re shopping for a friend, family member, or yourself, these self-empowerment must-haves will light up your holiday season! 1. Empowering Books to Inspire Growth Books have the power to transform lives. This holiday season, gift a selection of inspiring reads that will motivate and uplift. – Recommended Read: Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires by Esther Hicks. This book explores how aligning with positive energy can help you manifest your dreams. Shop…
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7 Colors and Crystals to Wear on Your Spiritual Journey
Align Your Vibe: 7 Colors and Crystals to wear to Amplify Your Energy When you’re looking to align with a certain energy, there’s magic in the colors you choose to wear. Each hue carries its own powerful vibration, and when paired with crystals that share the same energy, they work together to amplify your intentions and vibe! Here’s a guide to the colors and crystals that will help you align with whatever energy you’re calling in, so you can show up as your highest self every day. Embody Calm and Balance with Blue When you need calm, confidence, and clear communication, blue is the color to reach for. Blue soothes…
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Choosing Peace Over Chaos: How a Wedding Taught Me the Power of Joyful Focus
This weekend, I attended a beautiful wedding full of love, joy, and those typical wedding day hiccups that make for great stories. The experience taught me why choosing peace is far more important than engaging in low-vibration energy. Below, I’ll share how you can protect your energy and consciously choose peace in any situation, plus a fun activity to guide you along the way. The Wedding That Made Me Late, But Just in Time We were 45 minutes late to the wedding. At first, I felt a tinge of worry, but I remembered my guiding principle: Everything happens for my benefit. And just like that, when we arrived, not only…
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Manifesting with Intention: How Asking the Right Questions Connects You to Abundance
Earlier, I was chilling, watching Abraham Hicks videos on YouTube—shout out to the Abraham Hicks teachings and YouTube’s platform for keeping me connected to all this wisdom! Now, brace yourself because I’m starting off a little spicy. I’ve been having *amazing* sex with my partner. I mean, the kind that makes you daydream and fantasize all the time! So naturally, I started wondering—am I hitting my sexual prime at 40 like people say, or is my partner just *that* good? Maybe it’s both! But while I was in that dreamy state, I remembered something Abraham said—ask questions and watch how the universe (or whatever higher power you believe in) responds.…
